Don’t be THAT guy

August 12, 2017 Lifestyle Comments Off on Don’t be THAT guy 2,740 Views

So I’ve heard a few shit stories from girl friends lately about crap experiences while dating

Now i was planning to address this in a vlog with Evana but I happened accross this story from Reddit that kinda polarized the point.

A thing I see a lot is if a girl shoots down a guy, the guy will get agressive and nasty, see it all the time.

You know what I’m talking about the old ” sorry guy I’m not interested ” which is met with ” well fuck you then you fat whore”…. I mean.. no one likes to get shot down but for fuck sake, talk about driving that final nail into the coffin bud. I’ve always said ( to myself and others) “hey, if shes not keen thats all good more fish in the sea” or something to that effect. I have never understood why guys go full offensive like that, espeically in the days of social media when people can very easily screenshot and post this sorta stuff to facebook and out you for the scumbag you are. I just cant compute how that’s an ok or effective thing to do? I get shot down all the time and never once have I turned into that guy over it, I just count my losses and move on. given dating these days is such a high scoring endevour its not like every one of them is gona work out, so why get upset when finding a girl has never been easier; with the likes of dating apps etc. What is it in some peoples brains that makes them go out the gate when they are shot down? is it cause they can’t handle rejection? or have they been lead to believe they are so amazing no one could possibly not want them? mummy didnt love them enough??

Now, We’ve all said things in the heat of the moment that we might wish we could un-say but, sometimes shit goes so far off the deep end I wonder how it could get this far. Infact.. I was shown a text where a guy said he was going to post nudes of a girl I know if she didn’t sleep with him. My first advice was sent the screenshots of that conversation to the police along with his contact info and they will get into it cause that is in fact a legal matter. However the alternative I proposed to her was to just post the texts on facebook and tag him so all the other girls on his friends list can see how much of a creep he is? I know its stooping to lower levels but I think it might actually be pretty effective?

and I mean where is this douche even gona post the photos anyway? facebook? he’l get banned and he’l look like a cock to everyone on his friends list.

Here’s a great example from a guy thats been rejected by a girl I know, and has been threatening posting photos etc.